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Cheers to Sixteen Years

a colorful tree symbolic of my business Create Art 4 Good.
Celebrating creativity and human connection

Sixteen years.

I have written those words several times now, and I still find myself staring at them.  It’s sort of funny. I usually have to think about how old this business is, because frankly, it doesn’t seem that old. But I began it shortly after my mother passed in 2010. I needed to do something – something bold. 

Sixteen years ago, I took a dream that had been living inside me since childhood and decided to see what would happen if I actually gave it a chance.

I wanted an art gallery. Not just a place to sell art, but a place where art could do something good.

A place where artists could be supported.
A place where people could discover their own creativity.
A place where making something could become a doorway into connection, joy, healing, curiosity, conversation and possibility.

And somehow, here we are.

Sixteen years later.

When I look back, the path makes me smile.

I started with a traveling gallery. I brought art into homes, offices, conference rooms and anywhere else someone would let me set up. I used to joke that I was the Tupperware lady of art.

Then, much sooner than I expected, I found a brick-and-mortar space at the Hungerford in downtown Rochester.

Eight years there.

Then a move to East Rochester and the Piano Works Mall.

And somewhere along the way, I opened another little dream too: Greetings 4 Good. (Who doesn’t want to own a greeting card company?!)

There have been greeting cards. Original art. Prints. Workshops. Affirmation decks. Exhibitions. Collaborations. Community events. Messy studios. Beautiful studios. More ideas than I could possibly finish. More paint than any reasonable person probably needs.

There have also been hard things.

There have been years when I wondered if I could keep going.

There have been moments when I overcommitted, overworked, doubted myself, tried to do everything and occasionally wondered why I had ever thought owning a creative business was a good idea.

There have been losses. Deep losses. Losses that rock you. Losses that change you. 

There have been so many joys.

There have been seasons when creativity felt effortless and seasons when it felt like I had to dig for it.

There have been moments when I have felt absolutely certain about what I was doing and moments when I felt like I was wandering around in the dark with a paintbrush.

And yet…I kept making.

I kept showing up.

I kept believing that art matters.

I kept believing that people matter.

And I kept believing that a dream doesn’t have to remain a dream simply because it seems too big.

Sixteen years has taught me a great deal. About business. About art. About people. About generosity. About boundaries.

About saying yes. About saying no.

About asking for help. (well, I am working on that one)

About starting over. About letting things change. And, perhaps most importantly, about myself.

I am not the same woman who opened Create Art 4 Good sixteen years ago.

(Thank goodness.)

I have grown.I have become more directed. More curious. More willing to listen to myself. More interested in creating meaningful work than simply creating more work.

And I think I am entering a new era.

I don’t know exactly what it looks like yet. But I can feel it.

There is a little more clarity. A little more courage. A little less need to prove myself. And a much deeper understanding of why I am doing this.

I do this because I love art.

I love the moment when someone who insists they are “not artistic” discovers that their hands know something their brain didn’t know yet. I love the concentration that settles over a room when people are creating.I love the little gasp when someone looks at something they made and realizes, “I did that.”

I love the quiet. I love the mess. I love color and texture and paper and paint and marks and mistakes and happy accidents.

I love the people who make things. And I love the possibility that something we create with our own hands can make the world feel just a tiny bit more beautiful.

That is what Create Art 4 Good has always been about.

Art.

People.

Love.

And doing some good along the way.

So, on this sixteenth anniversary, I want to say thank you.

Thank you to everyone who has purchased a piece of art. Thank you to everyone who has taken a workshop. Thank you to the people who have put one of my cards in the mail. Thank you to the people who have bought an affirmation deck, shared a post, recommended me to a friend, invited me into a community, hung my art on their wall or simply said, “Keep going.”

You have been part of this dream.

You still are.

And because sixteen years feels like something worth celebrating, I want to celebrate it by doing the thing that has always been at the heart of Create Art 4 Good:

Let’s make something.

I am offering a very special anniversary creative experience:

Make Something Good: A 16th Anniversary Celebration

  • A 90-minute online creative workshop. (via Zoom)
  • $16.
  • 16 spaces.
  • Sixteen years of Create Art 4 Good.

You bring whatever art supplies you have. I will bring the prompts, encouragement, ideas and a little creative companionship.

We won’t be trying to make perfect art. We will be making something meaningful.

Something that belongs to you. And because Create Art 4 Good was built on the belief that art can do good beyond ourselves, a portion of every registration will continue to support a local nonprofit doing good things.

Sixteen years ago, I had a dream.

Today, I have a life built around that dream.

It hasn’t looked anything like I imagined. It has been harder. It has been better. It has been messier.

It has been infinitely more human. And I wouldn’t trade it.

Here we go. The next chapter is waiting. And I have a feeling there is still a whole lot of art to make.

With enormous gratitude,

Susan

Register Here for the workshop

Create Art 4 Good
Sixteen years of art, creativity, community and doing some good.

Here’s to what comes next. 💜

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What Brené Brown Reminded Me About Why I Do What I Do

 

I’ve been reading Daring Greatly and I keep putting it down just to sit with what I just read and breathe. I want to soak it all in and understand exactly how it applies to me, my life, my goals.

She’s naming something I’ve always felt but never quite had words for.

In my mind, I have always HAD to be PERFECT- before being lovable or even likable. Perfection is a false sense of armor that doesn’t allow joy or sorrow to penetrate it.

Brené has plenty to say about that.

Vulnerability is not weakness. It’s the most courageous thing a person can do. The research backs this up in a way that genuinely stopped me. I have always thought things had to be perfect before launching, this has prevented progress countless times. (My husband often says, “Don’t let perfect get in the way of the good.”)

She shares that people who experience the deepest sense of belonging, of connection, of joy, are not the ones who have it all together. They’re the ones who show up. Fully. Honestly. Without the armor.

But life sure does beat us up sometimes. I think we wear armor without even recognizing it. We suit up to navigate all the journey of life. Sometimes the hardest stuff comes from those closest to us. How do we move through that?

Yet, it feels obvious to me that the tenderest moments, the most meaningful moments, really are the most vulnerable. I cannot quite explain how it feels inside me to both be vulnerable and brave. They seem counter intuitive, yet they seem to be exactly what leads to my most authentic self.

I’ve been thinking about how much of my life has been spent making things from the purest place in me. I am reasonably sure I cannot accept credit for any of this. I think it’s just being open. The universe, God, however you view it speaks and I am trying to listen. New affirmation decks keep wanting to come through me. I literally cannot stop writing them. (There are more on the way and I am so excited about them.) Something keeps saying there is more to say, there are more people to reach.

But here’s the ah ha moment Brené handed me:

What I’ve been doing all along, in every card and every deck and every letter, is an act of vulnerability. Saying I see you. I believe in you. You are enough right now, not someday. That takes courage to put into the world without knowing how it will land. And somewhere along the way I started thinking of that courage as a little embarrassing. Too earnest. Too much. I have never really accepted myself as enough (or I have thought I am too much, fun, right?)

Daring Greatly said: no. That IS the work. Authenticity is the whole point. Meeting people where they are, loving them there, that is not soft. That is the most human thing there is.

Things are coming together for me in a way I can feel but am still finding words for. Like something that has always been true about me is finally something I can stand in with my whole heart.

Vulnerability, it turns out, is a strength. I’m just now letting myself believe that.

So, let us move through this life we are blessed to have with courage and vulnerability. There is certainly no guarantee of success, however, the joy we seek seems to be in those brave moments.

sending you so much love,

Susan

P.S. May Affirmation Letters. They are ready. Printed and waiting to be mailed, and I cannot tell you how much joy is sitting in that stack of envelopes.

Affirmation Letters is a monthly subscription delivering original affirmation art prints, personal letters, journal prompts, and an art invitation – all designed to meet you where you are. Learn more at Greetings4Good.org

a mock up of the letter, prompts, and the print for April. It has a print of a tree on it.
Love, delivered.
This is my act of love.
One envelope. One heart. One month at a time.
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My latest Newletter

I just sent out my latest newsletter from the studio today.

It shares something new I’ve been building called Affirmation Letters.

It’s more than a subscription for me. It’s a mission to send encouragement, creativity, and reflection out into the world one envelope at a time.

The phrase I kept doodling the other night says it best:

Spread love around like glitter in a windstorm.”

If you’d like to read the newsletter:
https://mailchi.mp/f6b60855b1a8/from-my-studio-small-sparks-of-hope-introducing-affirmation-letters

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Purple hearts and more…

This season brings all the feelings, doesn’t it?

On a global scale, life can feel impossible to manage. Negativity seems to seep into every corner of our days, a low hum we carry whether we want to or not. And yet, life bustles on. It is the holiday season, full of wrapping paper and shopping lists, ribbons and bows. The colors, the lights, the decorations glow with love and warmth. The anticipation of seeing my family, sharing meals and memories, and most of all savoring the gift of their presence fills me with hope and joy.

But the season carries echoes, too.

Alongside the joy live the memories of years past. Time with loved ones who no longer walk the earth. The holidays can hold a quiet dichotomy of emotions, joy braided tightly with longing. Loss and grief are not linear. They do not evaporate with time. Instead, they weave themselves into the fabric of our lives. We carry our loved ones close in our hearts while mourning the simple, sacred things we can no longer do: sitting at the table together, making new memories, sharing space.

Christmas has historically been the happiest time of the year for me. It has always felt magical. Not because of presents, but because of the small moments. This year, though, I find myself struggling a bit. I have so much to be grateful for, and that gratitude helps steady me, but it has also been a tough year. Both things can be true.

So why am I sharing this?

Because

I suspect I am not the only one who feels moments of sadness during a season that insists on joy. I have always tried to walk through this life leading with love. It has been my compass for as long as I can remember. And when life feels especially challenging, I try to meet it with courage, too.

That is why I often use a purple heart. 💜
For me, it represents the blending of both: love and courage, tenderness and strength, softness with resolve. It is a reminder that we can hold space for joy and grief, gratitude and weariness. That we do not have to force ourselves to feel “merry” when our hearts are asking for honesty instead.

We do not need any more weight to carry. Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is tell the truth about where we are, to ourselves and to one another. To keep showing up, imperfectly, with open hearts. To lead with love, and when that feels hard, to borrow courage and keep going anyway.

If this season feels complicated for you, you are not alone. There is room here for all of it. 💜

 

Sending you so much love – 

Susan

#LeadingWithLove #LoveAndCourage #PurpleHeartEnergy #ChooseLove #quietcourage #Authenticliving

 

 

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during the holidays YOU can make a huge difference…

I am not sure how to post this without upsetting someone. It seems to me that I try, but don’t always succeed. I am not going to tell you what not to do, but I am going to suggest something proactive to do.
As an artist, I am a member of a community of countless people trying to follow their passion and put more beauty in the world. We make, we try to sell, we struggle with social media and other avenues of advertisement, and sometimes we worry and doubt. It is a viscious cycle, I assure you. But the joy of making, the need of making always seems to win.

Personally, the most meaningful gifts I have purchased thus far have come from another artist. A potter in Newport, RI, a glass artist in Illinois, another artist in New York… you get the idea. My purchases to big box organizations mean nothing to them. My purchases from these artists mean they can pay their rent, or feed their family, or pay for the incredible costs that go with health care when you own your own business.

I am reminded of the quote, “Individually, we are one drop. Together, we are an ocean.” –Ryunosuke Satoro
I am not going to tell you to black out any big box store for the next week (although that would be great and powerful!) I am going to suggest you put your money into small businesses. People that work so darn hard. People whose hours are not 40 a week, but much, much more. Consider spending time to locate an artist, an independent store, or other small business. Your dollars will mean so much.

Thank you for listening, and for your consideration.
Sending you so much love, –

 

Susan

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Nice to meet you…

It’s been a long year, but I am grateful to be here

Hi, it feels like I should re-introduce myself. It’s been a while… My name is Susan Carmen-Duffy. I want to share a bit about me.

As I write this, I keep looking at the photograph I posted to go with this. No make up, clearly tired, and a faint smile. It’s been a tough year- I post this particular photo, because it’s real. The more I travel this journey, the more I understand that authenticity is key, not just a goal, but a way of life. I do my best to show up, regardless of the complexities of life.

I believe in family first (which is why I have been awol for much of this year-) I am a partner/wife, sister, mother, grandmother and more. Each of these roles I cherish. I am a life long artist. From the first Crayola I held in my hand to a paint brush now (or any other implement of creation) I am ever curious; inlove with layers, with color, texture, & in awe of the way art reveals itself to me.

Art is my prayer; it is my sacred activity. It balances me. It is my oxygen.

I am the owner and keeper of all things creative and whimsical for @createart4good and @greetings4good . This includes all aspects of the business, from creation, implementation, doing the books, vacuuming the floors, packing product to ship, planning and setting up workshops and more.

My mission with both businesses is to spread love through art and creativity. I believe that art heals. I have witnessed and am honored by the light that shines in someone’s eye when they attach to a piece of my art, or practice a method discussed in a workshop.

Create Art 4 Good is over fifteen years old. Greetings 4 Good is over nine years old. How crazy is that? While the business has changed locations, and grown to meet the changing needs, the core is still the same. I have said it a thousand times- “Share the Love”- We are all in this together- I believe that with all my heart.

If you read this far, thank you- I appreciate you more than I can say. I look forward to sharing more of me, my work, and hope you will follow along.

Sending you so much love…

Susan

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The acorn, gratitude, and Autumn

Gratitude for the simpliest things

As autumn settles in, I find myself reflecting on the quiet symbolism of the acorn – small, humble, and full of infinite potential.

An acorn doesn’t rush. It simply holds the wisdom of growth inside, trusting the rhythm of the seasons. Within its shell lies the promise of a mighty oak – a reminder that even the tiniest beginnings can lead to something enduring and strong.

This time of year invites us to slow down and practice gratitude -to see the beauty in our own beginnings, in the lessons we’ve gathered, and in the steady unfolding of our paths.

Just like the acorn, we too, are capable of becoming something grand – not through force, but through patience, care, and belief in our own becoming.

May this autumn be a time to honor growth -both visible and unseen – and to give thanks for the seeds we’ve planted, the roots we’ve nurtured, and the dreams still waiting to sprout.

What small “acorns” in your life are you most grateful for right now?

#autumn #gratitude #bloom

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There is always love

This year has been one of the hardest I can remember.

Two of our daughters have faced complicated pregnancies, each bringing tiny, beautiful preemie babies into the world. We’ve spent long nights praying, waiting, and learning that strength can be found in the smallest moments including the hum of hospital machines, in the softness of a baby’s hand, in love that never wavers.

The last few years we’ve also been caring for my father-in-law. Most recently and more seriously through a series of hospitalizations -five in seven months, until his passing this past Friday. Watching someone you love decline is one of life’s most painful lessons in presence. We did our best to make his final months filled with dignity, comfort, and love, even when the days felt incredibly heavy.

But there is always hope.

There is always love.

Somewhere in the midst of the challenges, a quiet sign appeared. My sister had come to the hospital to be with us on one of those really hard days – the kind where your heart feels stretched too thin. As she parked, she noticed a familiar image on a bumper: one of my own stickers; a heart I painted with a peace sign in the center.

That simple sight stopped me in my tracks. It felt like the universe whispering back: You are seen. You are supported. Keep going.

That little heart symbolized everything I needed at that moment – peace in the midst of pain, connection through creativity, and the reminder that something I made, born of love, found its way into the world and came back to comfort me when I needed it most.

This year has stripped away all illusion of control, but it has also deepened my faith in love, in art, and in the quiet ways the universe holds us when we can’t hold ourselves.

As life begins to find its new rhythm, I will slowly be returning to my work – creating, painting, and reconnecting with the heart of why I began all this in the first place. There’s healing in the act of creating, and I’m grateful to step back into that space again, carrying the lessons and love this year has taught me.

If this year has been heavy for you too, I see you. Let’s hold space for each other and keep finding small ways to celebrate the good -even when it’s quiet and fragile.

Sending you so much love,

Susan

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Memories of the loviest kind

It always feels odd to share a memory from so long ago But, having Louise Slaughter in my studio for a small business meeting was an incredible experience. She was gracious and kind. She was a trooper and climbed the stairs and traversed the halls of the Hungerford to get to my studio.
At one point she pulled me asside for a private conversation. She asked me if Create Art 4 Good was my full time focus, I replied, “yes, but also, I work full time during the day”. She got that gleam in her eye that she often did when she spoke with passion. She said (and I will NEVER forget this), ” Susan, I am so proud of you, you are making a difference in this world. Don’t ever quit.”
 
As I write this, it is still hard to hold back the tears. I share this for one reason- words matter. Intention, matters. Speak kindly, share hope, you are making a difference in this world.
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What are you grateful for?

Sometimes life feels beyond stressful. It could be one thing (work/family/friends/life, or even multiples- it weighs heavily, it builds up, it all seems to be too much. Even the littlest things can be so darn heavy. My question for you in this moment, is… what are you grateful for? I had countless conversations with my mom that usually ended with this question. She would listen to the grocery list of complaints, and then ask… “What are you grateful for?” (She would be so proud that I am sharing this with you now) This doesn’t in any way negate the stress you feel, the sadness, or whatever you feel. It just offers an opportunity to balance and see the situation a little differently. When I pulled this card today- it struck me that even though I am feeling quite overwhelmed by life, obligations, and a variety of heavy situations; I am not only allowed, but encourged to feel great joy. I have so much to be grateful for.
My gratitude is for the simpliest things today- the cold water I am drinking, conversations with my children, making a lunch date with a friend, a safe home to live in (that also has air conditioning so I can breathe in this heat/humdity), music that makes me want to dance, and … well, you get the idea. Life can be so darn heavy- but also, gratitude inspires joy. I hope that you find a way to feel the greatest of joys today. sending you so much love, Susan